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Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Get Over It Already..
I find it interesting how wounds often have this strange ability to develop their own soul. We're afraid to get over "it" as though it has feelings. If we stop thinking about it, crying about it, or limiting ourselves because of it, then it will cease to exist. People are just programed to hold grudges. I was talking to a buddy of mine last week ... you know those hypothetical "whoa is me discussions" and I basically had to slap myself upside the head.
Why hold on? I mean we hold onto things soo long that we really are over it. We hold on because if we let go we'll miss the pain, or the embarrassment, or the hurt, or the loneliness. It's wild. Getting over it, or them, or then would mean letting that thing die.
Grudges are like that mole that you should have gotten removed because it scares children but you didn't and eventually just got used to it being there. I'm trying to let somethings die but I'm afraid I'll miss them.
First & foremost I'd like to give honor to the Lord Jesus Christ, the light of my life, the rock in my soul, the forgiver of my sins, the sustainer of my soul, the center of my job etc. I feel like if he can love me in spite of my, then I'm doing alright. Well here we go again; another of these sites that everyone will join, go through the five hour process of registering and setting up a profile, and then abandon it when the next best thing comes around. Remember College Club, Blackplanet, Myspace and all the rest? Now there's facebook. Anyway I decided to jump in... what can I say... I was bored. Feel free to hit me up.. I don't bite.. at least not initially.